Time Will Tell

May 14, 2013 — Leave a comment

There’s a lot to be said about procrastination and whether it’s bad.  Personally I don’t believe we procrastinate to intentionally hurt ourselves.  In our right minds we are always looking to gain and benefit.  At worse procrastination is a focus issue that can be solved.

We procrastinate because we need a little more pressure applied to perform at our best.  We need urgency.  This is a good thing but also a telling one.  If you want to know how bad you really want something look at how much time is left when you procrastinate to the point of urgency.

The larger the period between when you feel enough urgency to act and the completion date and time of that task the more you want it.

The Art Of Adaptation:  Knowing how bad you want to succeed will help you do just that. 

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The bottom line of any budget is that you simply cannot stay above water if you spend more than you make.

The best deal is $0

A product is only a good deal if you need it (not want), plan for it and save for it prior to purchase.  A couple of days ago I was on the way to dinner with my team from work (paid for by the company, don’t worry).  As we walked across the parking lot I saw a couple of clothing stores and in the moment thought to myself, I could use some new clothes.  As I got closer to the window I saw a sign, t-shirts for $5.  Cheap right?  I agree, almost thrift shop prices yet this was a decent clothing retailer.  Who could pass it up.  Honestly, I probably wouldn’t have if I hadn’t read Tere Stouffer’s book, The Only Budgeting Book You’ll Ever Need.  It helped me realize three things:

  1. I didn’t need new clothes.
  2. I didn’t plan for new clothes.
  3. I didn’t save for new clothes.

What did I do… walked right by.  I successfully stuck to my budget and got the best deal.  This seems simple as you read it but I’m sure many can attest that it is not.  Remember that Items within the context of your financial goals are OK.  The rest of the deals are not deals.

The Art Of Adaptation:  Deals are usually not deals.

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Memory

Time moves in one direction, memory in another. 

- William Gibson

The subjective experience of time is highly variable.  We’ve all experienced it.  Sometimes days feel like months, months seem like years.  The opposite is also true at times.  Years go by like months and weeks pass in the blink of an eye!

Why is that?

Joshua Foer believes Memories are what make up our lives.  He says we remember what happens to us by positioning these events in time relative to other events.  We accumulate life experiences by integrating them into a web of other chronological memories.

Time seems more dense the more we contribute to that web of memories.  Meaning time seems longer or passes more slowly.  One way of looking at it is that monotony collapses time while novelty unfolds it.

Time Passing Quickly

Time Passing Quickly

A real world example would be if you were working what you felt to be a boring job.  Your days would begin to blur into one another and time seems to go by very fast.  Before you know it you are receiving awards for working in the same department for 25 years!

Time Passing Slowly

Time Passing Slowly

This means you can exercise daily and eat healthily and live a long life but experience a short one…

So how do we combat this?

I’m assuming that is what most of us want to do.  Of course there are times in life where we say, I can’t wait until __________ happens.  When people expect more enjoyable events we often wish our time away.  As I get older and realize how valuable time really is I wish I had more of it.  I want it to pass more slowly so I may use it and enjoy it longer.

A few things I do to slow down my perception of time passing are:

  • Change up my routine (work, training, weekend activities)
  • Take a trip or vacation
  • Try something new

New experiences are key in stretching out our perception of time.

The Art Of Adaptation: 

We control our perception and thus our experience of time. 


I learned this lesson about self-control quite recently and it has changed the way I buy food at the grocery store.  It happens each time I buy food.

At the grocery I have a tendency to just walk around picking up items as I stumble upon what I need because I often forget to make a list.  As I start to walk down an aisle of cookies, candy, chips and baking goods a flash memory of killing my self to make weight at a previous Taekwon-Do competition reminds me that I am currently cutting weight for an upcoming tournament and I don’t need what’s in the aisle.

Then it hit me!

It’s much easier to avoid temptation than to resist it. Don’t buy food you shouldn’t eat.  To do that don’t walk down the aisle of food you don’t want to buy.  By avoiding it first at the supermarket, it won’t be tempting to you from the cupboard for the next week.

The same concept can apply to buying coffee, clothes, cars, homes and so many more temptations.

The Art Of Adaptation: Choose to avoid and not resist.

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